Dear Future Boyfriend

Here's some things I'd like you to know about me, while with you. I thought (like the Miranda Rights), you have the right to know what you are getting yourself into, way before hand. So you cannot use anything against me, if and when (hopefully not) you come up with reasons to call it quits.

* I will be trusting you more than anyone. More than I do my own parents, or best friend(s).

This means I will tell you everything. You will be my personal diary, with the hope that like a diary, you keep all my secrets too. I will tell you the pettiest and shallowest things but I will tell you deep and serious things too. In the same way, I'd love to be that person to you too. I'd love to hear your rants and frustrations and your appreciation for life and things. I'd love to hear how your day went. But if you don't want to talk, we can do that too.

This means I will be most myself with you. Which means, I will not pretend or hide or contain or deny or suppress any of my emotions and feelings from you or towards you. On "those days" expect that I'd be nice to everyone else except you, only because I'd hope you'd understand and be patient enough. You'd give the understanding and patience other people won't give just because I am not their girlfriend. But don't think I'd always be mean to you on those days. It just so happens, you're the one I trust and well you're the one i'm most comfortable with.

This means I will trust you enough to be loyal and faithful. I will not check your messages, I will not constantly ask you where you are or who you're with. I will not bug you in the middle of the night and ask who that girl was who posted on your facebook wall. As long as you introduce them to me. Or you tell me where you're going, who you'll be with and what time should I start worrying about you before you go. Although you are tied to me, it doesn't mean I will be depriving you of your time for yourself and your time to bond with your friends. I just want to know.

* I believe that talking resolves things.

This means I like to talk. about everything that may and would affect our relationship. I want to be able to talk with you about our problems and not let the night pass without making up. I want to talk about how you feel and what makes you angry or happy. I want to talk because talking is one of the ways I get to know what's on your mind and that's important to me.

This means I won't let you go without an explanation. You will not defend yourself or justify your action, you will merely explain yourself. Why you did it and what you plan to do about it after.

* I like sharing. But I don't like to share you.

This means you're allowed to have as many women friends as you want so long as they know it's merely friendship and that you know it as well. When I catch you cheating on me, only God knows what I can and will do. That is not a threat.


 * I believe in honesty.

If you want out, if you fell out of love (which I don't think is really a reason), if you have fallen in love with someone else, if you're unhappy, if you hate me, tell me. I'd rather you be honest. If it's hurtful, so be it.I don't want to prolong your agony, more so mine.


* I will give you time and I expect you to give me time too.

I will not ask you of so much but do know that quality time is my language of love and I'd like to get to spend time with the person I love most, a lot, if not a whole lot. I'd like to do the things you want to do and bring you to places I want you to see. You know that couple kind of thing.

* I love you. I always have and always will. No matter how we end up. That's a fact.

:)

Starfire